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by Sam Stodghill, Psy.D.
“Gracious is the Lord, and righteous; our God is merciful.” – Psalms 116:5
Practicing self-care in the midst of meeting others’ needs is challenging enough, but what about remembering to practice self-compassion?
Self-compassion means “being open to and moved by one’s own suffering, experiencing feelings of caring and kindness toward oneself, taking an understanding, nonjudgmental attitude toward one’s inadequacies and failures, and recognizing that one’s experience is part of the common human experience.”1
There is growing evidence that treating ourselves kindly when confronted with personal failures can improve emotional well-being and increase our ability to withstand the impact of negative events. In turn, this type of intentional self-care can refill us and help us care for others more effectively.
Why it Matters
People who practice self-compassion are less likely to be anxious or depressed, and they experience higher levels of social connectedness, life satisfaction, and overall happiness.
Learn more about how to use self-compassion to improve emotional well-being and effectiveness:
1Neff, K. (2003). The development and validation of a scale to measure self-compassion. Self and Identity, 2, 223-250.
2Weir, K. (2011). Golden rule redux: Research suggests that for emotional well-being, you should treat yourself the way you’d want others to treat you. American Psychological Association, Monitor, 42 (7), 42.
3Leary, M., Tate, E. et al (2007). Self-compassion and reactions to unpleasant events: The implications of treating oneself kindly. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 92(5), 887-904.
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