Healthy Boundaries for Formators: The Goldilocks Dilemma

Product Description

Overview

When it comes to boundaries with those in their care, formators face a real “Goldilocks Dilemma”: they need to be “not too close,” “not too distant,” but “just right” to create space for a healthy and supportive formation experience. Kathy Galleher, Ph.D., offers guidelines for establishing authentic connection and maintaining healthy boundaries in formation work.

Learning Outcomes

1. Identify factors that create significant power differences in formation relationships
2. Discuss various boundary types, including emotional, social, physical and sexual, and common pitfalls in these areas
3. Explore questions around appropriate self-disclosure
4. Learn strategies for complex decision-making and developing consistent boundaries as a formation team

Reflection Questions

1. What are some important dimensions of boundaries that I need to attend to in my work in formation?
2. Which of these areas do I find most challenging in my formation work (and why)?
3. What is one new skill or practice I can implement in my work? Are there any supports I need to implement this effectively?